How shallow is it for guys to have the urge to have ?

Its not shallow for a guy to want it is shallow for a guy to want a girl to do everything and have you ever thought that isn't that good might be cause its the guys fault and that he isn't that great and if you want someone to have great with you stop pressuring them. Half of the time isn't great is the guys fault and if woman didn't want it would not matter if guys get hard or not if we don't want to have any either because sex is not just up to you guys and there is a reason there are so many sex toys cause some guys don't know how to pleasure woman so we have to look elsewhere for our release and that's how come we sometimes don't put the effort into it. But if the guy is great in bed so will we but if you just want great sex without a good relationship then get a hooker.